Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7
Do not be anxious…but in everything pray…
From my earliest church-going memories, I attended prayer meetings. Now, such meetings are rare. Instead we have prayer loops and prayer chains and prayer teams. Sometimes a small group will engage in times of prayer. Sometimes a church provides a prayer room for individuals or groups to gather to pray, to invoke God’s name, to seek His will. But what do we pray for?
Our church has recently added a prayer room with boards on opposite walls where anonymous prayers can be recorded. One wall is meant to offer prayers of praise and thanksgiving, the other prayers of petition and pleading. One is called the Worship Wall, the other, the Wailing Wall. The Western Wall in Jerusalem has been dubbed the Wailing Wall as well, and small papers are wedged into the crevices there with untold number of requests written on them. I remember the many people that came to visit the Wall when we were there, the way they held their prayer books and touched the Wall with reverence. Prayers of petition, even anguish.
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Deep within the human spirit lives an innate desire to pray, to reach beyond ourselves to a higher power. But do we really know to whom it is we are praying? And if we do, what is it that we ask of Him?
Some would suggest we should only pray for important things, that we shouldn’t trouble the God of the universe with trivial matters. Others would say that God is not interested in our day-to-day struggles or the intimate details of our lives. Are they right?
When Jesus walked the earth, his disciples asked him to teach them how to pray. I find this interesting because surely they had been taught the law and knew how a man was to approach God. But they’d also seen the examples of their religious leaders whose prayers were about themselves and to themselves more than anything. As they walked with Jesus and saw the way he would rise early, before dawn sometimes, and go to a lonely place to commune with His Father, they must have seen in Him something they wanted. A relationship. A peace with God they couldn’t understand.
“And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathen do. For they think that they will be heard for their many words.
“Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him. In this manner, therefore, pray:
Our Father in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts,
As we forgive our debtors.
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil one.
For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.” Matthew 6:5-13
So how do we pray in today’s 21st Century? What constitutes everything? (As stated in the verse in Philippians quoted above.) Surely, we wouldn’t dispute that we should pray about big issues like God’s will being done on earth and in our lives as it is in heaven, to find out what work He has for us to do, to receive wisdom for where to live, whom to marry, and other life-changing issues. But does He want to hear prayers for a good parking place, help finding the right clothes, a sick pet, a painful toe, a sore throat, and any and every little detail that crosses our minds? Some would contend that such things border on ridiculous. Some would even say such prayers would offend God Most High.
In my humanness, even I grow weary of prayer requests that seem better suited to private prayers than public requests for others to pray over. We might agree that we should pray for the election and the economy, but who really cares, besides me, whether I have a good hair day or hear from a friend I haven’t been able to reach? Should I ask for such things?
My questions bring me back to the models of Scripture. Jesus told the disciples to pray, “give us this day our daily bread,” leaving me to conclude that our prayers should be daily and concerned with immediate needs. He also reminded us to pray for God’s kingdom to come – a future event – and to be kept from temptation – also a daily struggle, to forgive others – maybe not so daily but probably a frequent thing, and to honor and glorify His Father, also something we should do every day we draw breath.
It seems to me that when Paul told the Philippians in chapter four not to be anxious about anything but to pray about everything, he was really condensing the Lord’s prayer. “Do not be anxious.” So if a situation worries me, be it finding a good parking place so a disabled passenger doesn’t have to walk far, or finding the right clothes for the right price because the budget is tight, or a painful toe because you have a marathon to walk, or a good hair day because you have to make a good impression at an important meeting…in other words, if anything causes me to be anxious, things like what I’m going to eat or drink or put on, or bigger things like God’s will for a future that might scare me, then I need to pray.
If a thing causes me to be anxious, it is a thing worthy of prayer. This may lead some people to pray constantly because they worry all the time. Others may not see a need to pray often at all over little details because nothing bothers them. We are each unique. For those who do not worry easily, they can spend more time praying for others who do.
The point is, God commands us to pray. God desires us to pray. God waits for us to pray. He created our spirits to be able to commune with His in this way.
As a born worrier – a vice I reluctantly admit – I am extremely grateful for those verses in Philippians 4.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7
When I bring everything to Him with prayer, petition, and thanksgiving, His peace really does transcend my understanding and guards my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. I never have to wonder what to pray about. Everything pretty much says it all.